Rossmylife

How do you know if the connection is real or fake. You can ask a question and get an answers. But are the answers true! That is a hard call, thinking this out you realize that maybe ask the same question but in different words. Now! You see if they are real or not. How far do you go in this new connection to think of continuing it.

That can only be answered by what your soul says. And that could be riding the fence for a time. Asking yourselves if the answers line up or are they off. Or they hesitate answering back. Only to hear in time as they answered. If the connection is real in their heart there should be no hesitation or in time answer. To be open to a new person shows alot of character. No, you don’t have to give personal information, but an answer of your beliefs and feelings about the question in mind.

But there is a catch to it all, you are told something that you would never believe. Now the mystery begins. They have been holding this back from you because they are afraid of you not accepting or think you will think of them differently. What do you do now, either accept it or say you need time to think it out. You must decide that from inside yourself and be up front and truthful to this person. Honestly and what comes from heart goes a long way.

I have been a person that is upfront, honest say what I want even if the other person may get upset. But they know where I come from and stand. This has happen to me, got an answer that thru me into a loop. Given her the benefit of the doubt. I had a hard decision to make and make it fast. Do I continue this new relationship or do I step away saying I have a problem with it. Well I stayed and realized she just opened up to me honestly. In my mind i think it makes this relationship stronger.

The bond between has now reached a new level on our feelings and thoughts about the future. But, we both still believe that this relationship will get strong and better as we talk more. Words sometimes are more powerful then action. It should be a balance between them, words last for ever, Action do not. Listen to your partner remember the little things even if they are small.That is the way to communicate.

So as I go down this new path with hope. I realized that if you don’t take the chance, you maybe lose it. Lose something that could bring happiness into my life. A new beginning with an old soul like me. If you have read my life history you will understand, is this another test or my reward for hope in my life. Either way, I must take the chance.