Rossmylife

How do you know if they are telling the truth? Ask them a question about themselves. Let time past then ask same question saying you that you missed something in their answer. Is the answer the same? People always remember truth, but lies always have a little different answer each time. I have always said communication is the best way to keep things open and fresh. It let’s the other person know without them trying to guess.

Or do you do an internet search on them, even a background check. The internet is not your friend, it could be false. Or they are victims of stolen identity. ( which is easy to do with modern technical knowledge). So the old way of investigating has to happen, questions,their actions, the tone in there voice with the answer. Or hesitation in the answer. If you do a background check then rethink this relationship. Because you have already doubted them.

All in all go slowly into a new relationship. Making sure the person is truly who they say they are. Too many have been catfished nowadays. Always ask what you need to ask, if in doubt say so. They may not like it, but if you are serious and say why, it’s their lost.