Rossmylife

We think we know someone and believe they are not telling you the whole story. But, to find out they were holding back information that may effect a relationship. I was raised to be upfront and tell people the truth. Instead of them finding out from somewhere else. This is where trust issues start.

Then you are confused, do you believe anything they say now. The old excuses of they didn’t want to hurt your feelings is a bunch of bull. Being open in the beginning, they then can really understand and may have no problems with it. You than talk things out instead to continue to hide things.

It’s easier to tell it upfront than it is trying to remember what you said in the beginning. Especially when they find out, without them looking. You are then fighting a losing battle, they will put up a wall. The wall of not believing anything is true coming from your mouth.

To say I am confused is an understatement, do you rethink this, forgive them after they explain. Or live in doubt about the whole relationship. Trying not be angered. Anger never solves the problem or provides the right answer. Waiting and thinking sometimes does, or it can be hinder. ( build of negative thoughts). We will see, but they have to make the first move on talking this out. If they don’t, so be it. Them the relationship is done, because if they really care. They would fight for this relationship to keep going.