Rossmylife

Back after a little break. My thinking process has been all over the place lately. Time now is to think things through from a third-party view. Something that people should do from time to time. And now is the time time for me.

Looking at my life and decision that I have been through, in others people eye’s may scare people away. Looking at it, you wonder if that was the right way to hand it or not. You have to look at it as life’s test. Life is full test, I surely know that.

As a third person looking in, you may not agree with those decisions. That outside view possible is the best, seeing you are not personally involved. As I look at a new question in my life I am truly believe that I should look at from a third-party view. A person that you meet and grown to know (maybe) has not asked for anything. But all of a sudden they ask for some financial help. They need before taking a trip. We are talking high-end Looking in at it from a thrid party view it shows red flags are up in the air now.

What do you say to that person, it’s just all been leading up to this. Why do they ask at the last minute, they say they need it to travel. Haven’t they traveled before. But for the amount they asking for assistance with is alot. So you say i can help you alittle between two different amounts and they assume the highest amount…..ding ding ding. Red flag is showing it’s face now. It’s time to tell them, re-evaluate this relationship. Don’t take another hit. If they are true to who they are they will understand the words no, because you have doubts.